Lauren is flipping inside out and so did Jesus, who's madness witnesses condemned too while we were crucifying him for saying that God was love and he himself was the son of it. One's condemnation is another's enlightenment. I venture to say that if she acts the way that makes her naysayers comfortable, we'll forgive her which'll show we're against her transformation and not the "her" we can identify with proving ourselves the neurotic ones. The rule of thumb is, if you can't call it an ego trip and can't call it normal, then you can't call it. hard to live wit aint it. hahahaha. can't love it till it's dead.